The only hitch, after transforming our hub floor to a gleaming finish, was that Pete would empty the dirty water down the domestic sink. It was important that Pete knew how much his hard work was appreciated, but I also knew that I needed to support Pete to understand why the dirty water should not be put down the kitchen sink.
I asked Pete if photos of the task would help him to remember what to do. He said ‘yes’. We worked together taking a series of photographs of Pete carrying out the task from start to finish. We used ticks and crosses on the photographs and backed this up with appropriate ‘Makaton’ signing. We started to use the photographs as a reminder. More often than not Pete would now remember independently, but I was available to prompt as required. Sometimes Pete would tell me what he was going to do when emptying the bucket and a ‘thumbs up’ celebration would then ensue.
The 2 men got on great and to think this was inspired by a blip!
I reflected on this..... Knowing that Martin seldom deviates from his routine, I was impressed by his spontaneity. Martin had used his initiative. He wanted to help Pete. The photos, the prompts and the celebration had motivated Martin to step out of his usual routine... and of course the fact that Pete appreciated his help. I think Martin felt valued.
Pete has learnt how to complete his task safely using a method that works for him and I have learnt that I can facilitate good outcomes by using the facilitation skills in particular; observing, reflecting, and getting communication right.
David Revill
Practitioner, Chesterfield